I know this has happened to a lot of you guys and I want to give you some advice on how to deal with it.

You met this real hot and sexy woman at a nightclub, bar, party, etc. and you got her telephone number. She seemed real interested in you and you can't wait to call her the next day.

So, you call the next day and all you get is her answering machine. You leave a message for her to call you back. You wait a couple of days and she never called back. You start thinking that she's trying to avoid you. I would give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe she didn't get your message, erased your message by mistake, she's just been too busy, a family emergency came up, she's sick and doesn't feel like talking to you, etc.

So, what I recommend doing is to call her again. If she answers, be sure and listen to the tone of her voice. If she sounds like she's not happy to hear from you, it could be clue that she's not interested in you. If you get her answering machine again, leave a message for her to call you again. If she still doesn't return your call, give up on her and move on. Take the hint she's trying to give you that she's not interested in seeing you.

Don't take it personally. We all get rejected. It's part of the dating game. You don't want to be with someone who is not interested in you anyway.